The Fine Line Between Dog Helper and Human Expectation

Dogs are remarkable creatures. They assist humans in countless ways, from guiding the visually impaired to detecting medical conditions and providing comfort to those in need. Their abilities are nothing short of extraordinary, and stories of canine heroes often capture our hearts. However, despite their incredible talents, dogs are not limitless in what they can do, and it is crucial to maintain realistic expectations of their capabilities.

Dogs Are Partners, Not Proxies: Respecting Their Limitations

Recently, I was approached by a family seeking a dog to fulfil a complex and potentially dangerous role. Their hopes were that a dog could watch over their autistic child, prevent wandering, and protect the child from stray animals and snakes. While I fully understand the desire for safety and support, this request highlighted a common misconception about what dogs can truly achieve.

Ethical and Welfare Concerns for Dogs and Humans

From an ethical and wellbeing perspective, both for the child and the dog, expecting a dog to physically stop a child from wandering presents significant risks. Unlike a human supervisor, a dog cannot adapt to context or consistently discern threat from non-threat when encountering stray animals or snakes on a case-by-case basis without human guidance. Training a dog to make such critical decisions independently is simply unrealistic. I have experience in people wanting to do so but it never worked out; it was much better to have a handler to help the dog (I assisted in training and raising anti-poaching dogs that worked alongside rangers).

Dogs Are Amazing, But They Can’t Do It All

It is also important to remember that while dogs can be trained to identify and avoid snakes for their own safety, expecting them to know how to protect a human from such threats without guidance is not practical. There could be breeds with a natural inclination to protect from other animals, such as Maremma and other livestock guardian dogs, but this does not mean they can fulfil a role akin to a human supervisor. I don’t know enough to make any recommendations of any of the above-mentioned breeds and I don’t know them at all—speaking to a breeder will give you more accurate information.

More Than Man’s Best Friend, But Not a Substitute for One

Additionally, it is very unfair and disrespectful to think that a dog can replace human relationships. Yes, a dog is not judgmental like humans, and never criticises when you talk to them, but a dog can’t go out working when you can’t to pay the bills. A dog can’t take care of you when you are sick or injured. A dog can’t get you supplies when you are unable. A dog is not a human, no matter how much some convince themselves they are their ‘fur-baby’. Dogs are not able to think in an abstract way or think rationally like we do—they are limited.

Exceptions Do Not Set the Standard

When people hear of exceptional cases where dogs perform incredible feats, it is easy to develop unrealistic expectations. However, exceptions do not set the standard. Dogs thrive under clear guidance, structure, and within the boundaries of their training. Pushing them beyond their natural and trained abilities not only sets them up to fail but also potentially endangers both the dog and those who rely on them.

Do Your Research Before Getting a Dog

If you are considering getting a dog for a specific purpose, it is crucial to do thorough research and consult with professionals. Not every dog, even within a breed known for particular traits, will be suitable for every role. Assessing the dog’s temperament, aptitude, and natural behaviours is vital in determining whether a dog can meet your needs safely and ethically.

When Dogs Are Asked to Be More Than Dogs

In closing, while dogs can be trained to do wonderful things, they are not a replacement for human supervision and judgement. Dogs are our companions, helpers, and partners—but they remain dogs, with natural limitations that must be respected. By maintaining realistic expectations, we can ensure a safe and fulfilling relationship for both humans and our beloved canine friends.

If you have questions about selecting a suitable dog or understanding what dogs can realistically achieve through training, feel free to reach out. I’m here to help guide you through the process with honesty and a focus on the wellbeing of both ends of the leash.